why is it hard for people to accept that some people are just happy with they way things are? i don't need to take big big risks. i mean, what is a big risk anyway? is it going to change my life? make it better? worse? whose terms am i following? the ones i take are big enough to me. they are the ones that will make a difference in my life. i won't do something just for the rush of it. and that may be dull to some, but i'm the one living this life, no? i do something because it means something. TO ME. not because i am trying to please someone else. so get over it already.